Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved, a concept based on the belief that there is a fixed natural order to the cosmos. I am a great believer in the saying what will be, will be because in reality if we want something badly enough, we can make it happen, remembering the secret to happiness is not getting what you want but still wanting it once you have got it.
My own destiny...